Just wanted to take the time to wish everyone a Happy New Year. Wishing you a 2018 filled with love, laughter, health, wealth…and great clothes.
It’s that time of year again, party after party after party. And not just with your nearest and dearest friends and family, but with your coworkers, bosses, and more distant (and sometimes more judgmental) relatives. I don’t know about you, but these kinds of events give me serious anxiety, usually because I have little to no context as to what to expect, especially about what to wear. Even if I am told what to expect, “Just dress casually!” I still have a million more questions; what if their idea of casual is my idea of dressed up? Like, “casual” as in yoga pants and a hoodie or “casual” as in jeans and a real top with buttons and stuff?
After some time of stressing and worrying about what to wear, I developed a question to help guide my clothing choices to find an outfit I can feel comfortable and confident in. The question could be asked before picking something out or applied to an outfit idea you already have in mind. The question is this: What would I be comfortable in this if other guests were really dressed up and if others guests were dressed down?
The sweet spot is choosing an outfit right in the middle. I know this sounds impossible, but once you think of the event in this perspective, you start to realize that there can be a happy medium. So, if you have no context to the event, think of an outfit fancy enough to fit in with a dressed up crowd but casual enough if guests showed up in jeans and a tee shirt. The same method can be applied to a designated “dressy” event, because there are hundreds of options in this scenario too. You can show up in a elegant top and dark wash jeans or a full-length gown. If you ask yourself the aforementioned question and still feel comfortable in one of those options, great! If not, perhaps a cocktail dress is the perfect compromise.
In all honesty, most of the time there is a mixture of people in their Sunday’s Best and others who wore the same sneakers that they walked the dog in earlier that day. But if you take this situation into account, you dress to feel confident no matter what the anyone else is wearing. And there’s no better feeling than being comfortable in your own skin. So, party on, people!
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One of the things I love about a change of season, along with the change of clothes, is updating my makeup choices. Makeup can play an integral part in finishing your outfit, really completing the “look.” As much as an outfit can determine your makeup (such as wearing a fuchsia lip to coordinate with a fuchsia handbag), the seasons can also help or hinder your look. Think about it, how would face shimmer and candy pink lips look with a thick maroon sweater and black jeans? Looks like your face didn’t get the memo that it’s not summer anymore.
So, that brings us to Fall, with its earth-tone hues and chillier temperatures. My favorite make-up for this season are lipsticks and blushes in varying shades of berry, mauve, and nude with matte textures. Now I love shimmery cosmetics, but I save these for the Spring/Summer months, when it makes sense to look a little dewy in the hot sun. If you simply can’t live without your highlighter, choose one with a cold-colored shimmer, such as a neutral shade, instead of a warm, bronze one. I suggest NYX Duo Chromatic Illuminating Powder in Snow Rose.
For lips one of my favorite products is matte liquid lipstick, it goes on smooth and even, making it easy to apply with precision. I highly recommend L’ORÉAL Infallible Pro-Matte Liquid Lipstick for it offers a bunch of great shades for Fall.
I would also suggest investing in a lighter/colder shade of foundation, since your tan will quickly fade away. L’ORÉAL also offers True Match Super Blendable Makeup foundation categorized by cool, warm, and neutral shades, to make the selection easier. A paler face makes a dramatic backdrop for deep berry or nude matte lips, as well.
I encourage you to shake things up and try a new shade of lipstick or blush this season, you’ll instantly feel updated. New season, new face (plastic surgery is not advised…)